8 Lifeskills to Teach Your Kids before They Turn 7

Skills that help your child
I have cancer, I don’t have too long and my kids will be helpless orphans who will grow up to become sociopaths — This kind of crappy thoughts often run through your head, don’t they? Don’t lie.

Parenting is hard. While taking care of a child is the most fulfilling thing you can do with your life, you can’t ignore the anxiety and stress that come with it.

You can’t be there for your kids forever, that’s the bitter truth of life. But you can at least teach them how to face every challenge life will eventually throw at them head-on. The earlier the learning begins, the better.

Take a look at the list of 8 life skills your child should master before she/he turns 7. Of course, there are many more things to learn but let’s start with the most basics, shall we?

1. Preparing a Simple Meal

No, your 7-year-old doesn’t necessarily have to know how to make duck confit with spicy pickled raisins (although, it would be pretty cool!).

But what your child can do at this age is learning how to make simple PB & Js or a chilled cheese in a sandwich maker. It doesn’t take a lot of effort. You can also teach her/him how to throw chopped veggies, some salad dressing in a bowl and finish it off with a squeeze of lemon. Nothing better than a fresh bowl of salad for lunch!

You can also ask her/him to be your sous-chef while you’re baking cookies or a cake. She/he can sprinkle chocolate chips on the dough and help you with the cleanup. Fine baby steps. Early meal prepping training develops a healthy eating habit in your child, which helps her/him to steer clear of the road leading to childhood obesity.

2. The Art of Self-defence

The world is a brutal place full of all kinds of freaks, which is why learning basic self-defense techniques is a must for everyone, especially children. Encourage your kid to involve in the self-defense training program in school.

If the school doesn’t have this curriculum, make your child take lessons outside. Your child can start taking karate, martial arts or Jiu-Jitsu lessons from the early age of three. Some parents fear that teaching kids self-defense will only encourage violence. That’s bull.

Proper training can make your children more disciplined, boost confidence, increase awareness and help your kids tackle everyday situations without engaging in violence.

3. Doing Your Own Laundry

Look, I was neither a smart kid nor I mastered the mystic art of adulting. But at least I knew how to do my laundry without my parent’s supervision since I was 6. I take a lot of pride in it. 🙂

There are a lot of steps involved in this process such as loading the laundry, separating the whites from colored clothes, choosing the right amount of detergent, temperature, and spin cycle. Don’t expect your kid to learn everything in a day. Baby steps, remember?

4. Reading Maps

I don’t want you to get you all freaked out but children do get lost sometimes, you know? Start teaching your kids how to read a map and deftly use the GPS as early as possible. You can make the whole process a fun learning experience for your child by involving her/him in treasure-hunting games on weekends.

5. The Importance of Road Safety

Sooner or later, your kid is going to demand a bike for her/his birthday. I know the very thought of your kid speeding through the pothole-filled roads makes you sweat bullets.

While you can’t possibly change your kid’s mind, you can, at best, invest in a high-quality motorized electric scooter. But before she/he takes the scooter out for a spin, make sure she/he receives proper training and learns all the road safety hacks from you or a certified trainer.

6. First Aid Training

Let’s face it, even if your job allows you to work from home, you are not always going to be around to look after your kids. Knowing that they at least have the basic first-aid training will give you peace of mind.

This includes teaching them how to stop the bleeding, disinfect the wound and put some bandage on top. In addition to these, you should also teach your child how to give Heimlich maneuver instead of panicking at the face of a choking incident.

7. Mastering the Household Chores

By the age of 7, your kids should learn to tidy up the bathroom after using it, do the dishes, make her/his own bed and keep her/his room clean without your help. Your child doesn’t have to learn all these in a day. And to make sure she/he takes an interest, use the magical power of rewards. A bar of chocolate, no homework for a night, whatever works for your little monkey.

8. Grocery Shopping

Teach your kids to be smart shoppers is going to save them big bucks when they grow up. I play a little grocery shopping game with my child where he is asked to buy 5 items (decided by me) at a set budget. If he successfully completes the task, he gets to bring home anything under $15 from the store.

Ending on a High Note!

Kids are whimsical. You can’t just expect them to straighten up the toilet or help you with the chores on their own. And why should they? Doing chores isn’t exactly the definition of fun. So, spice up the learning process with small challenges, rewards or whatever your kid’s poison is.

One more thing to remember here is that people learn faster and better when you lead by example. Don’t just ask them to do something they don’t care about. Show them how it is done, talk to them about the importance of being self-sufficient. It’s not super hard, try it.


8 thoughts on “8 Lifeskills to Teach Your Kids before They Turn 7

  1. Wow, never came across such kind of a topic, kids are like a raw mud and you can shape them whatever you want. It is so beautiful as well as difficult to shape a person. Loved all of your points. Thank you.

  2. I’m with you on this. 100% correct. Thanks a lot for this. It is indeed the best blog post I have seen on the internet today.
    I’m really grateful; keep getting the right words out there.

  3. I have a hard time imagining my kids being able to do some of these things when they’re six, but then again, in the prairie days, as in Little House on the, they had to do plenty of older kid things at a young age. All good life lessons.

    1. Haha, thank you for commenting. I really love the Little House stories. Wish you and your family a wonderful new year.

  4. This is so sad when thinking you won’t be there for the long haul, and I can see how worrying it must be for parents (worth noting I’m not a parent so I don’t really have a clue but I can appreciate the want for your kid to be savvy with the world and able to look after him/herself). I think I’d find it very difficult because I’d worry all the time. These are all excellent hopes for your child and I’m impressed at any parent that can instil these lifeskills before the age of 7! I knew road safety and to be fairly savvy in the world in general, but things like laundry or cooking or first aid or maps..? Forget it, nobody taught me any of those things, I just tried to pick them up over the years as I got a little older. Really good post! 🙂

    1. Thank you so much for reading, commenting, and sharing your experience. I agree with you that some of the items are tough for children.

      I even imagine what will happen if during an apocalypse the cell-towers do not give internet/navigation service anymore. We need to keep a regular map in the trunk of our car. 🙂

      I appreciate your visit! We wish you a wonderful new year.

    1. Haha. I am really glad to hear from you. It has become hard to appear in the blog-space frequently. I wish I could show up more frequently. Thank you so much for noticing that we are not writing as frequently as before.

      We wish you a wonderful new year.

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